How do you know when someone is the one??
For the past couple of months I've been giving one person all and I mean ALL of my attention and ive loved every minute of it. I love this person with all of my heart and I could honestly see myself being with this person for the rest of my life he means the world to me.
Now today an 'old flame' you can call him called me and me and him have not talked in a couple months but ive really missed him and our conversations. It's crazy because its one of those relationships where its someone who you'd never see yourself with but they're exactly what you might need, he's just someone to make you laugh and to just talk about nothing and we talk for hours (until he falls asleep he's on east coast time).
Its just hard because I know who and what I want but at the same time is it fair to be talkin to them both?? I mean im not in a relationship with either of them I just feel like either way im cheating on someone. Lol maybe thats just the relationship lover in me. Ive never been one to just date ive always put my eggs in one basket and that was it.
Its not that I have the same feelings for these two, its just two totally different feelings and it makes me anxious because its like I don't know which feelings I should go for. Do I go with 'the love of my life' or 'the one who is fresh and makes me feel all giddy' with both men I know they resect me and care one more than the other but its a possibility of two different relationships and now im confused.
How do females do this?? Im not the type to string men along I like to be upfront an honest but id love to just be with both. They both bring out the best I just want to put them both together and id be in heaven.
Ugh wth man this is dumb.